Myth #12: Convergence Is Balance

Many people have asked, "How can I get more balance in my life?"

This is the wrong question, and God is not obliged to answer bad questions. Convergence is not about balancing different parts of life. It is about submitting all to God and integrating.

Why might the balance question be the wrong question?

• Keeps us in control
• Keeps everything in play
• Doesn’t allow the Holy Spirit to redirect – planned in advance
• Allocation – stressed out all the time with everything equal
• Too busy to hear God
• The harder we try, the less balanced we are
• Removes humility

Integration is not easy, but it is rewarding. It carries an authenticity that is rare, a peace that is palpable, a centeredness that calms.